A mother once said something to me that I have never forgotten. She had spent more than a decade trying to save her daughter from addiction. Treatment programs. Therapists. Interventions. Boundaries. Consequences. Hope. Relapse. More treatment. Again and again, she had been given essentially the same advice: Stop rescuing her. Cut off the money. Let her experience the consequences. Only pay for treatment. Eventually, she will hit bottom. It was called tough love. And the moth